“Here We Go!” Remembering our First Jill’s House Weekend

Fifteen years ago tomorrow, we stood in the lobby of Jill’s House, hearts full of anticipation. After months of waiting for permits and licensing, the day had finally arrived. It felt a bit like planning a wedding—the anticipation, the preparation, the countless details—and then suddenly, it was here. Parents were arriving with their children, and we were about to find out if this beautiful dream we’d prayed over would truly work.

I had joined Jill’s House back in May as a community relations coordinator. I remember thinking, will families really trust us? We were asking parents who fiercely loved their children with intellectual disabilities to hand them to us for an entire weekend. That was no small thing. We believed God had called us to provide rest for families, but we also knew that rest could only come when parents felt, deep down, that their children were not only safe, but happy. That first weekend was the moment when faith met reality.

Six children came through our doors that Friday. Our team—administrative staff, caregivers, and volunteers—was all hands on deck. Among them was a brand-new part-time employee named Tranitra Joyner, better known today as Miss T. She had answered a Craigslist ad that read, “Do you love Jesus and children with special needs?”—and thought, why, yes, I do. That first night on the job, Miss T was assigned two of our most energetic kiddos, and she dove right in. She still laughs about the moment we realized we’d forgotten to buy shower curtains, sending one of our staff members racing to Walmart. It was chaotic and joy-filled and holy all at once.

The children, to our amazement, didn’t struggle with separation. They were curious, delighted, and immediately at ease. The parents, on the other hand, had a harder time leaving. They lingered in the lobby, waiting to see if anyone would cry or call out. They slowly started filing out as they realized their kids were not only safe, but engaged and having a great time. This was the start of our deep understanding that rest begins with trust.

By Sunday afternoon, as we waved goodbye to those first six families, I remember thinking, We did it. It worked. And what a joy it is to look back now and see how God multiplied that small beginning. One of our first children, Sydney, still attends Jill’s House today as part of our adult program. Miss T, who started that night as a part-time direct support professional, became a full-time leader on our staff just 90 days later. And she’s still here running operations!

From those humble beginnings, Jill’s House has grown to serve hundreds of families—but our mission remains the same: to reflect God’s love by offering rest, joy, and community. We often say that Jill’s House was built on prayer, and that remains true. The same prayers whispered in that lobby fifteen years ago—Lord, keep these kids safe; Lord, make them happy; Lord, please restore these tired parents—still echo through our halls each weekend. As we celebrate this milestone, I’m filled with gratitude for every staff member, volunteer, family, and donor who believed in the vision. God has been faithful. And by His grace, the best is still yet to come.

Dana Hecht is the President & CEO of Jill’s House.

 

Celebrating 15 Years of Impact, Hope for a Lifetime

Did you know that Jill’s House opened its doors on October 15, 2010? A couple who believed in us from the beginning recently made a $400,000 gift with the challenge that we raise an additional $100,000. Will you help us meet the challenge by November 15?

Why The Good Feet Store Partners with Jill’s House 

Guest blogger Jonathan Cotten is CEO of Easy Step Enterprises, a franchisee of The Good Feet Store.

As a business owner, I am in the business of helping people get back on their feet—literally. I’ve seen how something as small as the right arch support can transform someone’s life, allowing them to move freely, run farther, and live without pain. True support goes beyond providing a product, it’s giving people hope on their journey. What started as my own personal journey as a marathon runner to find relief from foot pain led me to a new purpose—eventually growing my company, Easy Step Enterprises, into a 44-store franchisee of The Good Feet Store. But over the years, I’ve come to believe that true support goes far beyond physical relief. Sometimes, the most powerful thing you can do is help carry the weight that someone else has been holding for too long.

That belief is what led me to Jill’s House.

A Personal Connection

My family knows firsthand the challenges of caring for a kid with complex medical needs. Since 2012, we’ve been on a long health journey with my youngest daughter, Kayla. There have been countless doctor visits, hospital stays, and difficult nights filled with uncertainty. Anyone who has cared for a kid with serious health concerns knows that it doesn’t just affect one person—it affects the entire family.

That’s why, when I first heard about Jill’s House, it resonated with me in a way few things ever have. Here was an organization that truly understood what families like mine go through. Jill’s House isn’t just about caring for kids with disabilities—it’s about caring for the whole family. It provides exhausted parents with the chance to rest and recharge, knowing their kids are in a safe, loving environment, having the time of their lives.

I’ve spent years walking with my daughter through her health journey. I’ve seen the emotional, mental, and physical toll it takes on parents and siblings alike. But what about families who are on this journey for a lifetime? What about parents who will spend decades providing round-the-clock care for their child? They are some of the strongest people I have ever met. But even the strongest need support. They need a community that understands, that steps in, that gives them a moment to breathe.

That’s exactly what Jill’s House provides.

More Than Just Giving—A True Partnership 

At Easy Step Enterprises, we don’t believe in just writing checks to causes we care about. We believe in investing in organizations that are well-run, fiscally responsible, and making a real impact in the community. We seek out partnerships with organizations that align with our values—ones that are changing lives in a tangible, measurable way.

Jill’s House has become one of those partners. This mission isn’t just important to me—it’s important to my family. Two of my sons are actively involved in our business, but I’m deeply proud that my entire family together is committed to supporting families who need it most.

Why Jill’s House Needs You

I’ve seen firsthand what happens when people come together to support something bigger than themselves. The impact is life-changing.

Jill’s House is a place where kids with disabilities experience belonging, joy, and adventure, where parents find rest and renewal, and where families are reminded that they are not alone. But none of this happens without people who believe in their mission and choose to give—whether it’s time, resources, or financial support.

If you’ve ever wondered how you can make a real difference in someone’s life, this is it. Jill’s House changes lives—one family at a time.

 

A Story of Peace: Jill’s House Featured on the We’re Good Podcast 

Are you ready for some good news? We have some! A new podcast series called We’re Good highlights people and organizations doing good work in the DC area. It is hosted by Lee Ann Necessary Brownlee, a longtime friend of Jill’s House.

And, more good news! Today “We’re Good” released a new episode about Jill’s House, featuring Kelly Speck, a longtime Jill’s House mom and author of Hope in the Heartache, along with our CEO Joel Dillon.

Take a listen at We’re Good Podcast Episodes or wherever you choose to find your podcasts.

“Covered in Peace”

In this episode, Kelly shares how Jill’s House has been a lifeline for her family. Bennett has been coming to Jill’s House for many years. Reading an excerpt from her book, Kelly reflects on her emotional experience of leaving her son Bennett at Jill’s House for the first time and how their family now compares Jill’s House to a Disneyworld experience.

But, more importantly, Kelly shares that when Bennett comes home from Jill’s House, he is “covered in peace.” We can’t think of a better articulation of our hopes for the impact of Jill’s House on kids and their families. That peace isn’t a gift of Jill’s House. It is a gift of God. And it is a privilege to be a conduit of that peace.

We are thankful to all those who help make this possible. Will you join us? Please consider coming alongside us with a  financial gift today. We are eager to bring this life-saving experience to more families! You can make it happen.

We’re Growing: Welcoming 30 New Families in 2025! 

As 2025 begins, Jill’s House is expanding in ways that will change lives forever. In just the first three months of this year, 30 new families will walk through our doors and experience the life-changing impact of Jill’s House for the first time. 

For many of these families, this will be the first time they have ever spent a night apart from their child with a disability. It will be the first time in years parents can go on a date, enjoy a special activity with their other kids, or simply sleep through the night without worry. These simple moments—things most take for granted—are profound gifts for these parents.

A family’s first visit often starts off a bit nerve-wracking, but quickly brings great joy and peace. As one Jill’s House mom shared about her son’s first visit last year, “We were so nervous! We let him take his phone so he could text us at any time. The first night, he sent us a text saying, ‘Good night. I love Jill’s House!’ We were so excited. The next day, he ignored us!” Another mom gushed that her child experienced “nothing but love” at Jill’s House. Parents can relax knowing that their kids are having a ball in a safe and loving environment.

A Place Where Kids are Celebrated 

At Jill’s House, kids are not just cared for—they are celebrated. They experience joy, laughter, and connection in an environment designed just for them. Every visit brings new adventures, friendships, and unforgettable experiences, while their parents receive the priceless gift of rest—physically, emotionally, and spiritually. But Jill’s House is more than a respite program. It is a place where families are seen, known, and deeply loved

You Make This Possible 

None of this would happen without staff who care deeply, volunteers who serve selflessly, and donors who give generously. Because of you, Jill’s House continues to grow, welcoming more families into this community of love and belonging. 

Help Us Reach More Families in 2025 

We don’t want to stop at 30 families—we want to open our doors to many more this year. But we can’t do it alone. 

Will you be part of this story? 

Your gift provides rest for exhausted parents, joy for kids, and hope for whole families who need it most.  Will you make a donation today to help us serve more families in 2025?

 

Family Christmas Party

Jill’s House’s Family Support Team was thrilled to be able to host 40 families at our first in-person Christmas party since 2019 at our Vienna campus. The children and their families had a wonderful time decorating cookies, crafting Christmas ornaments, visiting Santa, and posing for professional family portraits. One of the attending moms shared,

“Thank you so much for all the time, effort, and hard work putting this event together. My life, and my family’s life, has been completely changed for the better by the friendships we’ve made during the last year through these family support programs and events. I have made friends that I can even put down as emergency contacts for [my son] in a pinch; that’s how close a bond has been formed. [My son’s] weekend and weeknight stays are great for him and me, but these family support events have changed our whole lives as a family.”

Matt McNeil, First Jill’s House Parent to Serve as Board Chair

Many of you are familiar with Matt and Shannon McNeil. They are former Jill’s House parents. Both of their children, Waverly and Oliver, came to Jill’s House for many years. You can see their story here:

The McNeil family has been a part of the Jill’s House family for a long time now.

Many of you are likely unaware that Matt has been faithfully serving on the Jill’s House Board for several years. To my knowledge, he is the first Jill’s House parent to ever serve on our Board.

I’m delighted to report that on Tuesday evening, Matt was officially installed as the Chairman of the Board of Directors of Jill’s House. I am thrilled to have him leading the charge, and I would ask you to join me in praying that God will guide and bless him as he carries the banner for all of us.

Please join us in welcoming Matt into his new role.